Redefine sex as a playful, embodied experience that reflects who you truly are

Redefining Sex and Erotic Play

I can help you expand intimacy beyond penetration by introducing playful and exploratory practices. Together, we’ll discover what feels good for you through sensory play and creative ways to connect erotically

Diving into Pleasure and Embodiment

Reconnect with your body through breathwork, movement, and embodiment techniques. These practices help you feel more present and alive during intimate moments, deepening your connection to yourself and your partner.

Removing Shame

Together, we’ll release societal or personal shame around sex and intimacy. This opens the door to redefining pleasure as something playful, expansive, and deeply fulfilling

Expressing yourself with Radical Intimacy

Build emotional vulnerability and trust as a foundation for deeper connections. Learn how to express your desires, fantasies, and boundaries clearly and confidently to cultivate authentic intimacy.

Integrating your shadow

We’ll uncover and embrace hidden desires without judgment, creating space for self-acceptance. By addressing emotional blocks that prevent intimacy and self-expression, you’ll experience greater freedom and confidence in your relationships.

Exploring kink and taboo desires

kink can be a powerful tool for building trust, emotional intimacy, and exploring safe power dynamics. I provide a shame-free space where you can experiment with these practices and taboo desires in ways that align with you.

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Why choose me?

BDSM, Kink positive approach to Shadow Work

As a switch - and a Shibari practitioner - I view kink as a vibrant, playful aspect of intimacy, free from the constraints of shame and taboo. I can help you explore and celebrate your kinks confidently, consensually, and shame-free.

Sobriety & Addiction personal experience

My five years of sobriety provide a clear, focused, and compassionate approach, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for exploring intimacy.

Using embodiment and pleasure to redefine intimacy

I used to believe that sex was solely about penetration, and this deeply shaped how I experienced it. But as I began connecting with my body and desires, and prioritizing my own pleasure, I moved further away from this narrow definition. I can guide you in discovering your own unique understanding of sex, drawing from my personal journey and experiences.

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Do you relate to any of these difficulties?

I’m afraid to bring up my fantasies or preferences

I feel pressure to always meet my partner’s needs

I’m worried I won’t perform well in bed

I feel like we’re roommates instead of lovers

I feel guilty for wanting certain things in bed

I struggle with getting or maintaining an erection

I feel unwanted or undesired by my partner

I don't feel desire like I used to

I can’t relax because I’m worried about how I look

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More about me and my approach

I am an intimacy coach, a shibari teacher, and event facilitator passionate about helping individuals and couples explore deeper connections, embrace their desires, and cultivate authentic intimacy. My core work focuses on pleasure and embodiment, radical intimacy, and playful erotic practices, creating safer spaces to heal shame, discover authentic desires, and redefine what intimacy means. Shadow work and erotic shadow play have also been an integral part of my work for the past year.

Through coaching, workshops, and immersive events, I guide clients to build trust, connect more deeply, and experience intimacy in transformative ways.

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Offerings

Events

Check the calendar with online and in person events for the month.

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In Person Coaching

If you are located in Sofia we could meet in person in my house. You can experience the whole range of my practice, including exercises involving touch.

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Online Coaching

If you are not in Sofia, Bulgaria, but still want to work with me we could do online coaching. This type of work would have more homework you could do on your own and may also include voice and text message exchange.

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vanina wohlleb

Sex & Intimacy Coach