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Embrace Shame-Free Intimacy and Authentic Connection
Societal norms and shame can really block us from our authentic sexual selves. We often hold back, fearing rejection for who we truly are, or feeling embarrassed about wanting something “wrong” or being seen as “too much.” But what if you could rediscover the playfulness and pleasure in your sexual experiences? Imagine being free from shame, able to express your true desires without fear. You could reignite that craving for intimacy with your partner(s) and fully embrace the joy of connection again.
Be able to fully express and enjoy your sexuality without shame or feeling like you are asking for too much
Shame can be one of the biggest barriers to embracing your true sexuality and eroticism. It holds you back from accepting and enjoying your authentic desires, and it makes it difficult to communicate your boundaries and needs with your partner. By removing shame from your sexual experience, you can truly enjoy your curiosity and feel free to explore the depths of your sexual self.
Introduce more laughter and fun in your relationship, strengthening your emotional bonds and creating a vibrant, fulfilling connection
Playfulness is a vital part of your erotic experience. After all, sex is one of the few places where adults still allow themselves to play. Yet, because of societal expectations and personal restrictions, you might not give yourself the freedom to truly enjoy it. But joy, spontaneity, and fun are all possible, and we’ll work on practices to help you embrace them.
Learn to prioritize and elevate pleasure in your intimate moments by embracing it in every aspect of your day
Many people go through life guided primarily by their minds, believing that this is the most efficient way to experience life. But when it comes to feeling pleasure, it's important to shift your focus to your emotions and sensations. How does warm water feel on your skin? Or the taste of a strawberry in your mouth? You can absolutely feel pleasure during sex and enjoy your erotic energy—and it helps if you start noticing pleasure in every part of your life. It's all around you.
By developing effective communication skills, you can express your needs, boundaries and desires
Shame often stops us from sharing our true emotions, and fear can keep us from addressing conflicts. This can ruin authentic connection, build resentment in your relationship, and ultimately destroy intimacy. Truly connecting with yourself means accepting all of your emotions, triggers, and traumas, and understanding that they are part of your experience. It also means embracing your body, pleasure, and eroticism. Sharing all of yourself is one of the key building blocks of authentic connection.
Transform your sexual experiences by embracing your true desires and celebrating their erotic potential
Challenging emotions and past experiences can keep us from fully accessing our true desires, often leading us to settle for what feels just okay or to compromise for the sake of our partner. Over time, it’s no wonder that sex can become something we simply go through the motions of, rather than a source of joy and pleasure. By gently embracing and expressing your authentic desires, you can deepen your connection with yourself, opening the door to more excitement and fulfillment in intimacy.
As a switch, and a shibari practitioner, I view kink as a vibrant, playful aspect of intimacy, free from the constraints of shame and taboo. I can help you explore and celebrate your kinks confidently, consensually, and shame-free.
My five years of sobriety provide a clear, focused, and compassionate approach, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for exploring intimacy.
Integrating shadow work with a playful spirit, I guide you in confronting and transforming hidden parts of yourself, turning perceived darkness into a source of strength and joy.
Join me on a journey from shame to celebration, from inhibition to playful discovery. Whether you're seeking to deepen your relationship, explore your kinks, or heal from past experiences, I am here to support you.
My coaching provides a safe and supportive space where you can explore and celebrate your sexuality without judgment. By combining playful exercises, open communication, and guided exploration, I help you build a liberated, fulfilling intimate life.
Check the calendar with online and in person events for the month.
If you are located in Sofia we could meet in person in my house. You can experience the whole range of my practice, including exercises involving touch.
If you are not in Sofia, Bulgaria, but still want to work with me we could do online coaching. This type of work would have more homework you could do on your own and may also include voice and text message exchange.